Scott and I have always
taken a long trip on the Memorial weekend just as millions of other people do every year. However, most people just head out to the lake or on family vacations. For us, this is an opportunity to travel farther than we do on a normal weekend so we can collect more counties. Normally this type of travel requires lots of planning and thought, but not this trip, all we know is that we are New Mexico bound.
Our own image taken with my cellphone.
Last August we found ourselves in New Mexico and we both fell in love with the place. Since we have started thinking about where we want to move next continuing our county collecting, we decided it would be a good idea to see what Sante Fe and Albuquerque were like since that is where the job transfer would need to be. Last year we drove through the Cimmaron Valley and took the Enchanted loop and knew we wanted to come to this state again, but will we be as enchanted with New Mexico as we drive along highway 40 with the mountains far away from us?
Screenshot from Google.maps.
We are not sure what we will find or how we will feel about this place, but we are willing to give it a try. Granted we will not be moving for a year or two, however, we just have to see if it tugs at the heart like Taos did. So get ready for a four-day journey into New Mexico! Tell us what you think.
We have the truck packed up and will be finishing our day at work then head out to see if we will be New Mexico bound in the future for further adventures or if we will only be collecting more counties.
“When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change; at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we are not yet ready. The challenge will not wait. Life does not look back. A week is more than enough time for us to decide whether or not to accept our destiny.” ― Paulo Coelho, The Devil and Miss Pry
Life is one of those things we all have to live it one day at a time. We never really know when one of those crazy “life events” will occur. For @scottfand me, it has been happening a lot since that New Year’s Eve day this year. You see, I had an Ocular Stroke and everything has completely changed for me. Granted, this was not in the main part of my brain, but it was in my eye and had caused some pretty challenging issues for me. Between all the doctor appointments, the hospital stay, and a few issues stroke victims deal with on a daily basis, my health has impacted us on a major scale. However, we have done our best to make sure that it we still do the things we love to do to help make it all livable.
We were concerned, at first, about traveling because the strokes are not going to go away, they are something that will be a part of my life for the rest of my life. They have found that I have too many red blood cells and this causes my blood to be thick which puts me at risk for many health issues. Because of this I suffer extreme headaches, dizziness, and just don’t feel well; this situation is what caused the stroke and could cause more of them and heart events. There is plenty of testing going on to figure out why my body is producing so many red blood cells, but until we are able to figure this out there is one procedure that I will be having to have done for quite some time. I will be doing what is called phlebotomy. Basically, it is the medieval practice called “bloodletting.” This is the medical practice of removing blood for therapeutic purposes. It is not bad, as long as there are no leeches involved.
This procedure has to happen every four to six weeks until my red blood cell levels go down to where they should be. It is not a difficult procedure, I just go to the local blood institute and they take the blood as if I were donating it. Unfortunately, until they know exactly what is causing the issue, I am not able to donate the blood. It is not painful except when the first put the needle into the arm; the only issue I seem to have from it is I am exhausted for a couple of days.
Other than the health issues, we have had some family issues as well. We were living as Texas State Park Hosts and planning to move to our second park when my father contacted with me with some very upsetting news. He had been diagnosed with Pulmonary Fibrosis.
Pulmonary fibrosis is a condition in which the tissue deep in your lungs becomes scarred over time. This tissue gets thick and stiff. That makes it hard for you to catch your breath, and your blood may not get enough oxygen.
Because he was in the last stages, Mom needed us home to help. We had really not planned to move back to Tulsa, but here we are. My father passed away on March 26, and even though we knew about it, it still hit us all pretty hard. My father taught me many things but the one thing he said that really hit me hard was to not give up on my dreams. He said there were things he wished he would have done and he didn’t want to see me give up on mine. Like many other people, I had a wonderful father and will miss him greatly.
We had decided not travel as hard while my father was here and Mom needed help, but it is time for us start thinking about getting back to the travel life. However, now that we lived in a house, did not have the RV any longer, and have quite a bit more debt we need to make some changes. We have been given a challenge by life, yet again, so it is time to start making plans. One of those was for us to tighten the belt unrealistically and get debt free. Because of this, the dream of cross county across the country travel was looking impossible for quite a while. It was depressing and overwhelming.
One of the things we have discussed was me finding a “real” fulltime job, but I have had a real issue getting anyone to interview me, much less look at my resume. Because I have been happy to sit at home with the amazing hammock sleeping Cordie and work on nothing but Steem and our website I have not thought twice about working outside of home, but something changed on the afternoon of my father’s memorial. The people Scott works for called him and asked if I would like to give the dispatch job a try. Without thinking about it, he and I decided this would be a good thing to help me be distracted from grief and to bring in a paycheck. I like to think that Daddy walked up to the Big Guy himself and told Him I needed a break.
THIS WAS A HUGE OPPORTUNITY FOR US!
With this position, I will be making enough money that we will be debt free this time next year and hopefully getting money saved up so we can either purchase some land, RV, or school bus. This means Mom and my children will have time to decide what their next move is over the next year. We are finally seeing the light at the end of the long tunnel; our dream is starting to reveal itself again.
Yes, this will be a challenge for us. Working a fulltime job will be difficult for me because I have not worked one of those in a long time and my health issues will cause a few challenges but my employers are extremely understanding and supportive.
There are many challenges ahead for us, but Life does not stop or slow down for anyone. We have to be willing to decide to accept our destiny.”
On our way to Austin for the Global Block Builders Conference, Ren and I made a point to visit a few parks. After visiting a few new parks in Oklahoma we spent the night at Copper Breaks State Park in Texas.
As I have said before, Copper Breaks is special to me. It was there in June of 2015 that I, renewed a long term love of astronomy, and decided I wanted to be a photographer. It was the first place we went camping after getting a real camera. It is also the park where I first camped using a hammock and switched to hammock camping, and eventually getting rid of the bed and sleeping in a hammock full time.
We might have mentioned once or twice, that we miss Texas. One of the things we miss are the wildflowers, particularly the Bluebonnets. It just doesn’t feel like spring without Bluebonnets. When we arrived we had a field full of them right in our favorite camping area.
We always camp up top near the group camping area. Like most really dark parks, Copper Breaks brags about their Star Gazing, and then puts up street lights in their camping area. They do not put up lights int he equestrian and group camping areas though. So if you are going for the stars then that is where you want to camp.
Sunset over Big Pond October 2015 This photo was one of my first as a photographer, using a borrowed Nikon D70S
Sunset over Big Pond April 2019 Sunset over the same pond in April 2019 using my Sony A6000.
Copper Breaks is a very dark park, and an excellent choice for star gazing and astronomy. Dark as it is, it does have small towns a few miles to the North and South. This isn’t a problem when the skies are clear, but can cause light pollution problems if there are clouds for the lights to reflect from. Unfortunately every times I’ve returned to this park to do night photography, we have had these clouds. This trip looked like it might be a wash out, but I got up anyway in case they cleared off, and the did clear enough to make it worth shooting.
If you are doing landscape astrophotography, then you are looking to shoot interesting things in the sky with interesting things in the foreground. Most interesting thing you are likely to shoot with just a camera will be the core of the Milky Way, which is rising a few hours before sunrise in the spring. Late spring ans summer are sometimes called Milky Way season, but parts of the Milky War are visible pretty much any night. Still the core in Sagittarius is by far the most photogenic.
Sunrise over Big Pond One advantage of getting up early to shoot the stars is that you also get to shoot the sunrise. When I first started shooting I didn’t have the right equipment to do astrophotography, so I started doing landscape photography. Sunrise or sunset over a body of water is a classic for a reason.
Bluebonnets at Dawn And anothe photo of Bluebonnets, just because I can.
Posing in front of Gorman Falls at Colorado Bend State Park Photo is mine – taken with a cellphone.
While we were on our way to Austin for the Global Block Builders Conference, we decided to have a little fun and treat the time en route as a mini vacation. We decided to head towards southwestern Oklahoma and visit two of the Oklahoma State Parks we still had to get: Fort Cobb State Park and Great Plains State Park. This only left five Oklahoma State Parks to visit!.
Traditional state park sign at Fort Cobb to to make the collection official Photo is mine – taken with cellphone.
Fort Cobb State Park in Oklahoma was what we have found to be true for all the major state parks in the state. They have a lake for fishing, boating, and other water sports, there is plenty of camping for RVers and tents, and there is a golf course. The golf courses usually are to help encourage more than just fisherman and they are huge in the Oklahoma State Park system. The park was nice and would be a great get away.
Traditional state park sign at Great Plains to to make the collection official Photo is mine – taken with cellphone.
Great Plains State Park was also a park focused on the man made lake, but it was not much more than a place for camping and fishing. It was pretty enough with the nice facilities campers enjoy, but for us there was more reason for us to visit in the future. This place is beautifully situated in a very good spot so we can eventually explore the counties in that area like Quartz Mountain, the Wichita Mountains National Wildlife Refuse, and a lot of old west history.
View of Quartz Mountain over the lake, the photo does not show how big this is, but it was huge. Photo is mine – taken with cellphone.
@scottf and I love state parks. They show the best about an area of a state and they almost always have the nicest and knowledgeable people working for them. We started collected Texas State Parks in the fall of 2014 and only had 34 parks left to visit all 98 of them.
Traditional state park sign at Colorado Bend to make the collection official Photo is mine – taken with cellphone.
There are two Texas State Parks that Scott wants to visit in a major way and they are both supposed to be very rough to camp in if you are used to the normal state park. No hook ups, not plumbing, and extremely dark skies. That would be Colorado Bend State Park and Devil’s River. I have been avoiding these two parks due to my knee and the reputation being a park not for the glamour. However, Colorado Bend State Park was the only park near Austin that we had not visited that had camping so we were Colorado Bend bound.
The view of the Colorado River from our walk in camp site. Photo is mine – taken with cellphone.
Colorado Bend State Park is beautiful and has the largest waterfall in the state at 70 feet tall. There are a lot of trails to hike and plenty of space for riding and fishing the river. The night sky was amazing and it was totally worth the stay. This is one place I would love to come back to and explore some more.
Getting to see the Grand George Farm Boy doing some tractor work. Photo taken by @andiekins.
On our way home from Austin we encountered traffic in the Dallas area which was causing us to reroute the drive and we would be about an hour from our daughter @andiekins so we decided to take the night and enjoy the two Grand George’s there. The next morning we headed out and collected two more Oklahoma State Parks: Raymond Gary State Park and Clayton Lake State Park.
Traditional state park sign at Raymond Gary to make the collection official Photo is mine – taken with cellphone.
When we drove through Raymond Gary State Park we found campsites and cabins sitting nicely along the banks of the lake. I was impressed with the mini docks beside each camping area as well. It made a very inviting place for those who came to fish and kayak. It is an extremly small park, but perfect for the weekend camper.
Traditional state park sign at Clayton Lake to make the collection official Photo is mine – taken with cellphone.
Every so often Scott and I come across a state park that just makes us want to live close by or come for another dozen visits. This park was definitely one of those for us. It is nestled in the Kiamichi Mountain Range in Oklahoma and it is a CCC built park. The drive through was lined with pine trees that were filled with many birds and butterflies. While standing over the spillway, it looked as if nature had placed the boulders in just the right spot. This will be one of those parks we will definitely find an excuse to visit.
Because of recent rains the grass was starting to grow in and the mixture of browns with it just thrilled me so much I had to get a photo. Photo is mine – taken with cellphone.
<div class=”text-justify>We love being able to visit a lot of state parks in a single trip. This enables us to see some of the amazing places in each state. This trip was originally was going to give us three new state parks, but because of a closed highway, we were able to pick up another two state parks. This means we only have three parks left in Oklahoma and 33 left for Texas. I think I see a road trip to Oklahoma Red Carpet Country soon.
One of the things I liked best about living in Texas was the wildflower season. Texas is big and contains a variety of habitats, but in nearly all of them, you can find an explosion of wildflowers every Spring. Since it is Spring now I thought I’d take a few moments and share some of the wildflower photos that I’ve taken over the last few years.
Bluebonnets and Plains Coreopsis
If you have ever been in Texas in the springtime, you know it just isn’t Spring without Bluebonnets, and I find that I am really missing them since we have moved. We are heading to Texas next week, so with luck, Ren and I can get our Bluebonnet fix. You will often find cars lined up on the side of the road with full families running about amidst fields of these Texas flowers (Bluebonnets are the state flower) taking pictures. It is not Spring in Texas if you don’t get Bluebonnet photos of your kids. The video above was our 2017 Spring “photo”.
Milfoil (Achillea millefolium)
As we travel each spring I always try and capture some of the wildflowers we run across. It’s part of what makes it feel like Spring to me. There is something about the colors, the reds, blues, purples, yellows, and other colors that attract the birds, bees, and other insects to help pollinate the wildflowers all around.
Prickly Pear Cactus (Opunita)
We were surprised that even the cactus blooms in Spring. This prickly pear bloom was found along the Abilene State Park’s lake. Within a matter of weeks, there will be a dark red fruit showing up on these cacti and the deer will be feasting upon them.
No doubt there are plenty of places to see wildflowers here in Oklahoma, but we haven’t found them yet. Perhaps it’s still a bit early in the season. Ren is often looking for the places we normally see wildflowers in Texas along the highways, but she never sees any. Lady Bird Johnson (President Johnson’s First Lady) said, “Ugliness is so grim. A little beauty, something that is lovely, I think, can help create harmony which will lessen tensions.” It was that time period when Texas began spreading Bluebonnet seeds along the Texas highways.
I’m not a botanist, so I can’t really tell you what most of these flowers are if you know you are welcome to say something in the comments. More than likely while my wife does the formatting of this post, she will label all of the flowers. Ren is good like that. (This is Ren, the website I get the names of the Texas wildflowers is http://www.texaswildflowerpictures.com. Don’t tell @scottf my secret, he thinks I’m the smartest woman in the world.)
Flowers are from left top to right bottom: Winecup (Callirhoe sp.), Texas Bluebonnet (Lupinus texensis), Texas Paintbrush (Castilleja indivisa), Texas Sunflower (Helianthus praecox), Golden-wave (Coreopsis basalis), and Antelope horns (Asclepias asperula)
If you are heading to Austin for the conference, see if you can make time to visit the Texas Hill Country (https://texashillcountry.com/) and see some of the wildflowers. It’s supposed to be a good year for them and I am so excited to be heading towards them.
I took this photo in January of 2016 at the Roaring Camp Railroad near the Henry Cowell Redwood State Park in California. We were visiting our friend Barbra in San Jose and went to see the Redwoods. It rained most of the time that we were there, but we didn’t mind. The clouds, fog and rain gave the forest atmosphere, and there we no crowds. We like to travel during the off season, the weather may not be ideal, but we often have the place nearly to ourselves.
The Roaring Camp Railroad is a train ride to the top of the mountain through the Redwood Forest pulled by a 1880s era steam engine. This was my first time to see redwoods, and I was not disappointed. I think the rain added to the experience.
I love this photo of the steam from the train discharging into the fog, though I almost missed my ride back down the mountain to get the shot.